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Thoughts on Tim’s birthday
By Featured Blogger Tina Santiago-Rodriguez, October 11, 2011 11:00 AM
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Our son Timothy turned 5 yesterday. (Yes, you may have noticed that it’s “birthday season” in our family, starting with mine and hubby’s!) Just like our birthdays, we chose not to celebrate Tim’s special day extravagantly in the material sense.
Instead, we chose to celebrate extravagantly in another way – by attending Holy Mass at our office (the Couples for Christ Global Mission [CFC] Center). The Eucharist is the highest form of worship and celebration, and a chance for us to experience God’s bountiful blessings and receive His grace. In the words of St. Francis of Assisi, “Everything in man should halt in awe. Let all the world quake and let Heaven exult when Christ the Son of the Living God is there on the altar in the hands of the priest.” Of course, it is a challenge to get small kids to sit still and pay attention during Mass. Thank God though that Tim (and his little sister Therese) are relatively well-behaved whenever we attend the Eucharistic Celebration.
Happy birthday, Tim!
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The wonder that is my mother ;-)
My mom celebrates her birthday today! 😉 She turns 60, so it’s a rather big milestone for our family. We weren’t supposed to celebrate as she had planned to go to her hometown, Malolos, on Oct 1, to help my uncle and aunt (Tito and Tita) prepare for the fiesta on Oct. 4.
However, she and my Papa decided to postpone their trip to today (Oct 3) soooo… my siblings and I threw a simple impromptu birthday bash for her!
We prayed over her before having a simple dinner.
After having our fill of pancit, litson manok and cake, we “surprised” her (she sort of knew we had something prepared! hehe. I am SOOOO not good with surprises! hehe!) with a simple slideshow, and birthday greetings and honorings from all of us, even my sister and bro-in-law in Brunei.
It was fun reminiscing with my family. And taking the time to honor our mom, who is one of THE MOST unconditional, loving, selfless, patient, giving, kind people I know!
I am SUPER happy that my little (not so little anymore! haha) brother was able to join us, despite the short notice. And that my sister was able to go online too!
Of course what kind of celebration would it be without PICTURES?! 🙂
Happy, happy birthday again to our Wonder-Mama, Super-Lola and God’s special Little Flower!
We love you!
Truly Rich Reflections: On Celebrating Life
(written on my birthday, September 13, 2011)
I turn 31 today. For some women, 31 may be a “dreaded” age, as it means that one is one year closer to the big 4-0. Some even start experiencing what could be called a “midlife crisis” at this age, and start questioning the choices that they had made earlier in their lives. Others are happy, content to be where they are in their lives, thanking God for all their blessings. Others still, use occasions like this as a time to reflect, to ponder upon the “greater meaning of life,” as some would call it.
For the past month or so, I have been struggling with thoughts of “What if?” “What if I had pursued my career as a physical therapist?” “What if I had taken another course in college?” “What if I had started building a financial foundation earlier?” And so on.
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Truly Rich Reflections: Unconditional Love
Dearest sweet, loving Jesus,
This was my song to You 10 years ago – when I said Yes to Your call to go fulltime for CFC. This is still my song to You now – when I am discerning and praying for the next call You want me to answer.
Today, this blessed day when You gave me LIFE through my parents, I thank You again for Your unconditional, amazing, perfect LOVE. Thank You for the love of my family, my community and my friends.. and yes, even of strangers, who have now become friends because of our common passions.
Thank You most of all for being my Beloved One, no matter how ugly and imperfect and graceless I can be.
“Even though You know.. You will always love me.. Even though You know.. You’ll never let me go.. I don’t deserve Your love.. But You give it freely.. You will always love me.. Even though You know…”
May I be moved to love others as You have loved me – in whatever way You call me to!
Amen.
Mama Mary, pray for us.
Truly Rich Reflections: The Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary
Dearest Mother Mary, we thank You for being with us throughout our lives. Especially for whispering your promise to take care of our children while we were on mission in Timor. Happy happy birthday dear Mother!
Let us take some time to reflect on Mama Mary’s birthday, with this reflection from Deacon John:
A Short Reflection on the Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary
by Andrea di Bartolo
“For she is more beautiful than the sun, and above all the order of the stars: being compared with the light, she is found before it.” (Wisdom 7: 29)
There’s a wonderful story in Jan Connell’s book “Visions of the children”: In the first few days of the Apparitions, the Blessed Mother was most gracious about the fear of the six visionaries, and gentle about the personal suffering each was enduring. She told the Children: “Would you Children like to give me some presents?” [To celebrate Her Birthday] Jacov sorrowfully blurted, “Dear Blessed Mother, I don’t have any money!” The Blessed Mother smiled joyfully and said: “Oh Jacov, my dearest little one, you don’t need money for my birthday presents! Tonight when you go home, no matter what your feelings tell you, no matter how you are stimulated, rather than speak the pain in your heart, run outside and look at the heavens and cry out, ‘Its all for the love of you, Dear Jesus.’”
Mirjana said the next evening at the Apparition, the Blessed Mother thanked Jacov for his gifts from the previous evening. By the time the Blessed Mother’s birthday arrived, Mirjana said that Jacov “was just bursting”. He had billions of presents for the Blessed Mother! High-strung and nervous by nature, young Jacov could hardly contain himself during the long rosary prayers that preceded the Apparition.
Finally the moment came. The great flashes of light announced the arrival of the Queen of Heaven and Earth. As Jacov saw her he literally reached up and grabbed at the Mother of God as he cried out. “Happy Birthday, Dear Blessed Mother!” Realizing what he had done, Jacov fell on the floor in shame and fear. Mirjana said she saw the Blessed Mother tenderly lean down and pick him up as she took his little nail-bitten hand in hers and kissed it.
Are we remembering that our Mother Mary’s birthday is celebrated by the Church throughout the world on September 8th? Are we planning to give her a present too? Have we already picked a present that will please her? Have we some way to give it to Her?
All mothers are alike. When you were a young child, didn’t your mother give you the money to buy her a present? The Mother of us all will be glad to pay for the present we wish to give Her, and she will enjoy it!
Why not give Her some gems and jewels? We say you can’t afford such a gift. We can. We can give Her the jewel of modesty: purity of thought and word and action; these are precious gems; but we have to beg them from our Blessed Mother. Let us ask Her to give them to us so that, in turn, we can give them to Her as a gift on Her birthday.
Us parents; God has given us our children as precious gifts, why not offer them to Mother Mary on Her birthday, She will mold them into images of Jesus and Herself; and make them Saints. I do this every day with my Rosary prayers saying: “With this Rosary I bind my children to the Immaculate Heart of Mary.” When my daughter Elizabeth was baptized, we asked the priest to consecrate her to Mother Mary. He took us to a side altar of Our Lady and before her statue consecrated Elizabeth to Mary’s Immaculate Heart. Whatever happens, I know that Our Lady will take care of my children’s souls and lead them to heaven. Our Mother promises this, so never give up on your children!
Some other gifts that we could give to Our Blessed Mother are:
A handkerchief for Her tears; uniting our own tears of sorrow, disappointment, pain, and misunderstanding with Our Lady’s Sorrowful and Immaculate Heart caused by the sins of the world.
A charming dress called humility, asking Mother Mary to give us the material we need to make us humble, modeled after her deep humility.
A pair of gloves; gloves for our hands that we used to do works of charity, deeds of kindness, love and devotion; Good Works! How She will love this gift!
Flowers. Mary loves flowers. She has asked us to adorn the Tabernacles where Her Dear Son, Jesus, waits for us to adore His True Presence, with flowers and candles. And praying the garland of flowers, the circlet of roses, the Holy Rosary, is a special gift from God the Father for Mother Mary; a gift we can present to Her every day of our lives!
And finally, the best gift of all! Holy Mass and Holy Communion! Why not be there on September 8th, to honor Our Lady’s Birthday and present all these gifts to her in person. She is always present at Mass, just like She stood at the foot of the Cross at Calvary. She will always be next to Her Divine Son, Jesus, interceding for us from the moment we are born to the moment we die!
Happy Birthday, Mother Mary!
Deacon John
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