Truly Rich and Blessed

On Philstar.com: What I Learned About Forgiveness from My Six-Year-Old Son

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Contrary to what you may think about me or glean from my posts here and on Facebook and Twitter, I am certainly not the “perfect” wife and mother. While I don’t believe that there is such a thing as a “perfect” anyone anyway — except God, of course — I do strive to be the best mother I can be to my kids, and the best wife to my husband. Sadly though, I fail many, many, many times every day. It’s a good thing God always reminds me — usually through my kids — that there are always, always, always second chances.

I invite you to read my latest post on Philstar.com, where I share the lessons I learned about forgiveness from my eldest, who is turning seven next month. Just click on the image below:

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On Philstar.com: Learning to Let Go

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My post this week on Philstar.com is all about letting go and letting God.

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I was waxing sentimental again while writing it, because I know I still have a LOT to learn about being the intentional parent I want to be. Here’s part of my post:

Every day, I realize more and more the importance of letting go, especially if you are a parent. As a self-confessed “control freak,” this is certainly not something that’s easy for me to do. Letting go and letting things “just be” are not actions that I can easily take.

However, being on bed rest for over a month now has made me realize that letting go and “letting God” is part of our daily life as parents, or at least it should be.

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I believe that God has a purpose for me being on bed rest, although admittedly, it has been very challenging for someone like me, who’s always “on the go.” I must admit that I’ve found myself complaining a lot and “cheating” sometimes, i.e. not resting as much as I’m supposed to.

Still, I know that letting go and letting God take over the aspects of my life that I am reluctant to give up will only do me good, and so I must do just that. As I share with you my realizations today, I encourage you to do the same – to relinquish control over your life and just let God take over.

To read the entire post, please click here. I’d love to hear what you guys have to say about “letting go and letting God.” 🙂 Even if you’re NOT a parent!

On Parenting and Choosing Love

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You all probably know by now what a crummy week I had and how Lent didn’t start out the way I had hoped it would.

Too many times, I have sought out God’s mercy (one can never do this too often anyway, right) and poured out my frustration in tears. I realize now, more than ever, how difficult is to keep love — not just in Lent — but in everything I think, say and do.

I thank God though, that the bad days seem to be over (at least for now).

Writing this cathartic post about choosing love, especially if you’re a parent, on Philstar.com seemed to help me a bit, and I want to share it with you all. (Yes, you can judge me after you read it, and I won’t mind, because I love you like that. 😉 My life is an open book, anyway, and I don’t hide my faults.)

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Click HERE to read my honest, soul-baring post.

Oh, and if you want to tell me what you think about it, feel free to leave a comment here. 🙂

Or tweet me, like some people did. 😉

God bless your weekend, folks!

Truly Rich Tips: How to Have a Joyful Lent (on Philstarnews.com)

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How do you observe Lent?

Do you go around with a sad look on your face, or complaining about the sacrifices you feel have been “imposed” on you?

Do you feel burdened by the practices of your faith?

Or do you go through the 40 Days of Lent with a quiet joy in your heart?

With the feeling of hope that after these 40 days, there is something much, much greater to look forward to?

On my latest post on the Philippine Star’s website, Philstar.com, I share a few tips on how you (and your family!) can have a joyful Lent.

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Yes, it IS possible. 🙂

Want to know how?

Click here to read my post. And feel free to come back here and share your own tips or thoughts in the comments section. 🙂

Have a blessed, joyful, meatless Friday ahead folks! 😉 And a great weekend, too!

On Taking Time to Honor Our Spouses

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I know I said my next post here would be all about my goals for the year, and my “One Word” for 2013. I already have it drafted but I’m just waiting for the graphic to go with it. (I’m SO excited about this, really! I hope you’ll stick around so I can share the post with you once it’s ready!)

In the meantime, allow me to take this time to honor my husband. We celebrated our seventh wedding anniversary on Monday, January 7, and I got all mushy and decided to dedicate my post for the week on Philstar.com to him and our love story. I realized that, when it comes to having a healthy marriage, it’s the little things that matter. 
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I hope you’ll take the time to read that post, if you haven’t already. Just hop on over here. I’d love to know how you honor your own spouse, too, so feel free to leave a comment below. 
Leaving you with these beautiful words about marriage from EWTN for now (emphasis mine):
A sacrament is a visible sign of an invisible reality. Matrimony is a sacrament and as such it is a sign to the world of the invisible God living in our midst – the living God who bears fruit in the lives of two people. They are a continual sign of His Power in the world. There is special grace and power within every couple God has joined together. Everything they do singly or together, is a living out of their sacrament. Simple things like washing dishes, running a sweeper, driving to work, struggling to make a living, budgeting a small salary to meet big expenses – yes, these and al I the other facets of life together, have power hidden within them to make them holy. Married life is the ground of holiness, love is the seed planted by God. Life together with its agonies and joys, pain and sacrifices, frustrations and tensions, moments of exultation and despair, all act as the rain and sun, thunder and lightning on a young sprout.

The faults and weaknesses of each one are compensated for by each other’s virtues. Each possesses what the other lacks. This results in a loving dependence on each other for spiritual growth and transformation. If a married couple can form a habit of looking at each other in a sacramental way – seeing the beauty of God in each other’s souls – seeking to enhance that beauty by upbuilding each other- mutually growing in the image of Jesus – then that Sacrament of Matrimony bears the stamp of the living God.

If you’re married, I highly encourage you to take the extra time this year to honor your spouses. Take the time to see the little things they do for you and your family, and let them know how much you appreciate them. Believe me, it will make a difference somehow.

Of course, relationships, especially marriages, that have God at the center, will be even more blessed! I know it’s a struggle to do this — to be in a “love triangle” with God and your spouse — but I’ve learned that, despite the challenges, you’ll find that married life will become so much easier.

Let love be sincere; hate what is evil, hold on to what is good;

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love one another with mutual affection; anticipate one another in showing honor.

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Do not grow slack in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord.

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Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer.

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