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Amazing Grace for Moms: Thriving by the Grace of God

July 7, 2012 by Tina

I have a confession to make — this post has been loooong overdue! I know I said I’d continue the Amazing Grace for Moms series throughout June, but before I knew it, June had snuck up on me and flashed by at the speed of lightning, and now it’s already July! 🙁 My sincerest apologies to you all, and especially to those who submitted posts for this series. 🙂

Anyway, I’ll try harder to be regular with this starting this month, OK? (The operative word being “try.” LOL!)

To start off, here’s a guest post from Mommy TG, i.e. Teresa Gumap-as Dumadag, who, like me, is a Catholic homeschool mama, writer and blogger — among other things, too! (Check out her complete profile here.) May you be inspired by her story and be amazed by His grace! 😉

Thriving by the Grace of God

Thrive is defined by Merriam-Webster.com as:
1.    to grow vigorously: flourish

2.    to gain in wealth or possessions: prosper

3.    to progress toward or realize a goal despite or because of circumstances. 


In The Free Dictionary, it is defined as to make steady progress; prosper.

I feel so blessed already just by reading these definitions of the word thrive.  The word kept coming into my mind as I was thinking of what to share when Tina invited me to write a guest post for her blog’s 50 Days of Amazing Grace.  

Let me share how the different definitions of thrive has been applicable to me.

 I won’t be able to share the details of my story in this post but I will do my best to give you a glimpse of my adventure with God as manifested in my professional life and the choices that I made over the years.
I graduated from the University of the Philippines in Diliman with a degree in Hotel and Restaurant Administration.  I was already offered a job even before I officially graduated.  I started as a Management Trainee in a fast food restaurant, got promoted and given bigger responsibilities, and became Officer-in-Charge of a branch in just two years.  Then, I resigned from my job and turned my back on a promising career in the restaurant business. 

Many people did not understand why I made that decision.  Many people are either unemployed or underemployed, or are dreaming of being able to apply what they studied in their jobs.  There I was living the dream of many and yet I chose to let go of something very good.

Why did I resign?  I resigned because I had an “aha” experience.  I realized what my true passion was.  I realized that though I liked the restaurant business and I was good at it, there was something else that made my heart race faster and my mind ever so active.  It was helping people develop to their full potential by inspiring them and training them.  I discovered this as I was handling the training and development of our staff in the restaurants where I was assigned.  I experienced a different kind of fulfillment and joy.

So armed with that discovery and faith in God whom I believe was the one who planted that desire in my heart to make a career shift, I left my stable and promising job and looked for a job in training.  

Another compelling reason for me to leave my job then was that it hindered me from attending regular prayer meetings in a Catholic Charismatic Community of single professionals.  Moreover, my shifting work schedule in my job made it very challenging for me to enjoy the presence of God daily in the Eucharist.  There were times when I would doze off during Mass while kneeling and praying with my eyes closed.

Shortly after I resigned, I was hired by a training company mainly for my potential.  I had little experience but the owner of the company believed in me so much that he hired me as Training Officer.  I felt God’s assurance through him.  I learned many things in that company including how to use Power Point and how to make training manuals.  

That was just the start of a wonderful adventure with God in my career or professional life.  The things that happened next to me in the years that followed were all miracles from God and a result of His grace.

It all started with a dream to have a job in the training department of the fast food restaurant where I first worked.  But God was not content in simply fulfilling that small dream that I had for myself.  He pushed me out of the first company I joined so I could grow and be fit for the much bigger dreams that He had for me.  

I was eventually hired as Training Officer of bigger companies, including a multinational company where I grew exponentially in many aspects.  It was during my employment in this company that my dream of being able to travel to different places was fulfilled.  I conducted trainings locally and abroad.  I developed training modules which were used in our branches in the Philippines and in the Asian region.  

From Training Officer, I was promoted to Training Manager.  I was very happy already with what I had achieved by the grace of God.  But God had bigger plans for me. 

I was hired by another company to be their HR Manager again, mainly because of my potential and my value system.  After that, I was hired in another big company where my dreams of having my own vehicle and being paid a specific amount as compensation were realized. 

I couldn’t help but feel so blessed as I look back at my growth as a professional.  There are still a lot of times when I just stand in awe of God as I thank Him for making all these things possible in my life.  I know deep in my heart that I would not have all these achievements if not for His grace and His help; especially since my educational background was not related to human resources management, but hotel and restaurant administration.

What amazes me even more now is that I have already realized my dream of becoming a freelance Management and HR Consultant.  The timing is also perfect for me to finally live out my dream.  I stopped working full time shortly after I got married and at the beginning of my first pregnancy.   From someone who simply dreamed of having a job in training, now I get to choose the HR projects I work on.  

I praise and thank God for helping me to keep on moving forward and achieving my goals.  I praise and thank Him for prospering me and my family through the work of my hands over the years.  I praise and thank Him for the grace to believe in Him, in His Word and in my god-given gifts.  I praise and thank Him for the grace to step out with courage and hope every time He pushed me out of my comfort zone and asked me to stretch beyond my perceived limits.  I praise and thank Him for all the doors of opportunities He has opened for me through the years until now that I’m not only a freelance Consultant but also an author and freelance writer.

I did not achieve my dream or my goals without challenges or difficulties.  The truth is I had plenty of them.  I think those were the reasons that made every achievement and victory much sweeter.  I can’t help but point to God every time I’m asked to tell my story because I would not be where I am now if not for His amazing grace.

So let me end my sharing by encouraging you, dear reader, not to be afraid to listen to God’s voice in your heart.  Do not be afraid to follow His lead.  His grace will be enough for you as He calls you to do new and bigger things.  I can say this with conviction and know this to be true because I have experienced this truth in my life repeatedly.  I pray that you, too, would find yourself to be in one amazing adventure with God.  God bless!


Teresa Gumap-as Dumadag is the author of the book, When My Bridegroom Comes. She is also a writer and contributor to several publications. However, she says her primary titles these days are WIFE, MOM and GOD’S SERVANT. You can find her blogging over at Mommy Bares All.

Filed Under: Amazing Grace, Amazing Grace for Moms, God, God's Calling, Guest Posts, inspiration, Mommy Bares All, Mommy TG, Motherhood, Reflections for moms, Vocation

50 Days of Amazing Grace: Day 44 – Do What You Love

May 21, 2012 by Tina

It’s time for our daily dose of Amazing Grace! 🙂 This time, it’s a super-inspiring post from Simple Mom, called “Do What You Love.” Here’s the part I loved the most about the post: (Hey, that rhymes! LOL!)

I don’t apologize for being a writer, because that’s how God made me, and there’s no reason to justify His creativity. I’ll bet He made you for something, too, and you don’t need to feel sheepish about it. 

Perhaps you’re good at sewing, and you light up inside at the hum and whir of your sewing machine. Maybe you’re a runner, and you feel God’s pleasure when you do it. You might be the absolute perfect parent for the children you’ve been given, and there’s something they need that only you can provide in your unique way. 

Whatever it is, don’t wish it away. Be happy with how you’re made. And then exercise that gift. Share it with the rest of us.

It’s just like what Bo Sanchez always preaches and writes about: the importance of discovering your core gifts and reaching for your life dreams — because that’s what God made us to do! 🙂 I.so.love.it! (I love the fact that, like the author of that post, I have discovered that God made me to be a writer. 🙂

He made you to be something, too, dear reader! 🙂 Don’t be afraid to discover it! Then you’ll see even MORE of how His grace works in your life! Believe me, I know!

Praying for you! 🙂

Leaving you with this quote for today:

Source.

Filed Under: 50 Days of Amazing Grace, calling, God's Calling, God's Plan, Life is A Gift, Life Purpose, Pro-Life, Vocation, Writing

50 Days of Amazing Grace: Day 40 – When God calls you, He’ll make sure you get the message

May 17, 2012 by Tina

A few days ago, I shared on my homeschool blog about how God turned our family’s plans upside down and inside out — just to show that He has a specific call for us at this particular point in our lives. I’d like to share that post with you here, in case you missed it on my Teachermama Tina blog.

When God Calls You To Homeschool, He’ll Make Sure You Get The Message

Right after posting it, a few moms sent me messages (via text and FB) that the post really struck them, and spoke to them about their own families’ situations. I love what one of the moms said:

just a shout out to let you know how your post touched me today  especially about your surrendering to God…”That night, though, I made peace with God. And I said, “Lord, I/we leave it all up to You.” Two days after, God showed us that He is, and always has been, in control of our lives, desires and dreams.”

Not just about homeschooling, but in all aspects of our lives, it’s so true! 


Come to think of it, it is true. When God calls us to do something, He’ll definitely make a way for us to get the message. We might be delayed in understanding it, or perhaps we don’t want to hear it. But His message will, more likely than not, be LOUD and CLEAR. He’ll use even the most mundane, ordinary things or situations, or even the people around us, to speak to us. We just need an open heart and mind. 🙂

Think long and hard. Is God calling YOU to do something lately? 🙂 Don’t worry about answering, He will surely equip you for whatever it is He’s calling you to do! 🙂

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Filed Under: 50 Days of Amazing Grace, calling, God, God's Calling, Listening to God, prayer, Vocation

Truly Rich Tips: Write Your (Mommy) Mission Statement

November 13, 2011 by Tina

“This is an official entry to Dainty Mom’s “Write your Mommy Mission Statement” contest.”


This is another post inspired by my friend Martine of Dainty Mom, the previous one being part of a meme. Though I have been thinking about writing this for a while now, even before Martine announced her pre-birthday blog contest. So, taking advantage of this relatively work-free weekend and the caffeine pumping through my veins from hubby’s sweet pasalubong of hot mocha from 7-11, I’m going to attempt to write my own mommy mission statement.


But first, why should one do so? Why should one have a “vision and mission” even when it comes to something like parenthood/motherhood?


To put it simply:  

Proverbs 29: 18. (Photo from wbyg.com)
I believe the same applies to one’s life, and one’s family, and one’s children.

If you don’t know where you’re headed or where you want to go, then you will “perish.” And so will the people who you are responsible for. If you’re a parent, then you’re responsible for your kids.

So I’ll start of with this statement: I believe I am called to be a “parent for eternal life.”


As a former single missionary to the youth, I used to cite Acts 20: 24 as my personal “mission statement”:
“Yet I consider life of no importance to me, if only I may finish my course and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus, to bear witness to the gospel of God’s grace.” (New American Bible)


Now that I am a mom though, I have shifted to my current (and our family’s) life verses (which are also the verses behind this blog):
“So do not worry and say, `What are we to eat?’ or `What are we to drink?’ or `What are we to wear?’
All these things the pagans seek. Your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. 
But seek first the kingdom (of God) and his righteousness, and all these things will be given you besides.” (Matthew 6: 31-33)

These verses have helped me put my life in perspective, and also provide the backbone for my mommy mission statement below:

1. I am a child first. As you may have read from my “About Me” page, I say I am “truly rich” because my Father is King. I will strive not to forget to be God’s child first so that I can be the best wife for my husband and best mother for my kids. 

2. I am a wife before I am a mother. I forget this a lot of times and so by writing this mission statement I also renew my commitment to be more loving, kind, patient and supportive of my husband. I will do my best to balance my time so that we will grow old together with wonderful memories and lots of perfect moments.

3. I am a mother to two amazing kids – God’s gifts of life to us. I have failed my kids many, many times but I hope that more than those bad moments, they will remember how much I and their Papa love, accept, appreciate and cherish them. I will strive to raise them as God-loving, responsible, faithful persons, by God’s grace and mercy.  I will be more intentional with what I think, say and do, especially for their sake – including planning our meals, handling our finances, and choosing our entertainment. For now, I believe that homeschooling them is also part of this mission.

4. I am called to be a communicator of God’s love. I borrow this term from Bo Sanchez. It has taken me more than thirty years to discover this (31 to be exact, yes, that’s how old I am now!). I am actually a licensed (but non-practicing) Physical Therapist from one of the country’s top universities (ok, I’m biased!). But my “first love” has always been writing. 

And now, a little over 10 years since I graduated from college, I am making a living (and hopefully, inspiring people along the way!) through writing and editing (and blogging – though not so much! Haha!). More than earning for my family, I will write / use my communication skills to glorify God. Of course, if I’ll be able to score big financially while I’m at it, this would be a wonderful bonus-blessing! 😉

This mission statement is subject to review and updating of course. I know that God will continue to reveal more of His plan for my life and my family as time passes. One thing’s for sure though, as a Catholic wife, mom and writer, I will do my darndest to live out the mission that God has given me, by His grace.

*I’ve exceeded the 600-word limit Martine set in her blog contest criteria, so I don’t know if I still qualify for the contest. Hehe! Nonetheless, I’m grateful to Dainty Mom for inspiring me to write this. So what are YOU waiting for? Go write your own mission statement now! 😉 Feel free to share a link to it in the comments section below or post a link on my blog’s Facebook page . I’d love to read it!



Filed Under: About Teacher Mama, Blog Contests, calling, dainty mom, Intentional Parenting, mission, Mommy Mission Statement, Vocation

Truly Rich Reflections: "As the Father has sent me, so I send you." (World Mission Sunday 2011)

October 22, 2011 by Tina

Today is World Mission Sunday. In the Holy Father’s message early this year, he explained beautifully the theme “As the Father has sent me, so I send you” from John 20: 21. Here are some wonderful pointers from his message:


1. “The universal mission involves all, everything and always. The Gospel is not an exclusive good of the one who has received it, but is a gift to be shared, good news to communicate. And this gift-commitment is entrusted not only to a few, but to all the baptized, who are “a chosen race … a holy nation, God’s own people” (1 Peter 2:9), to proclaim his wonderful works.”



Since coming home from our 5-year mission in Timor Leste, I have come to realize all the more how every baptized Catholic is called to mission. Contrary to what many people think, you don’t need to be sent to another country to do mission. You can share the gift of the Gospel right where you are – in your own home, community, workplace, etc. As Blessed Mother Teresa said: “Love begins at home and it is not how much we do, but how much love we put into that action.”

We will forever treasure our family mission in Timor Leste –
we learned SO MUCH from the beautiful people of Timor!

2. “…the missionary dimension of the Church is essential and, therefore, must always be kept present. Hence it is important that every baptized person as well as the ecclesial communities be interested not only in a sporadic and irregular way in the mission, but in a constant way, as the way of Christian life.”


Being a missionary is part of the Christian way of life. Even if we no longer carry the “official” titles of “fulltime missionaries” in our community, we still consider ourselves as missionaries. In fact, ever since we were blessed and privileged to share about the missions at the , we have been encouraging people to be “everyday missionaries.” It is a great challenge to do this in a broken, bitter world where God is usually the least priority, but we are called, and we believe that God equips those He calls!

During the first of a series of “despedidas” (farewell parties) for us in Timor Leste –
I cried buckets and buckets of tears then! I still shed a tear or two now whenever I think of Timor,
and my heart occasionally aches to be back there, with our family in Couples for Christ Timor Leste.
O Timor ami hadomi o! (O Timor we love you!)




3. “…through co-responsible participation in the mission of the Church, the Christian becomes a builder of communion, of peace, of the solidarity that Christ has given us, and collaborates in the realization of the salvific plan of God for the whole of humanity. The challenges that it meets, calls Christians to walk together with others, and the mission is an integral part of this path with all.” 


To be a Christian does not mean being passive or just praying and keeping silent on world issues. Instead, we must pray AND act. However, prayer and action have no meaning if they are not done with love. In the words of Blessed John Paul II (whose inspired hundreds of people, including us):



Today, on World Mission Sunday, let us reflect on God’s call to proclaim His goodness – in whatever way we can! Let’s also say a special prayer and celebrate the Holy Eucharist with special intentions for missionaries everywhere! 😉 

Filed Under: Advocacies, calling, Catholic Church, God, Our Catholic Faith, Pro-God, Truly Rich Reflections, Vocation, World Mission Sunday 2011

Hi! I'm Tina Santiago Rodriguez, a Catholic wife, homeschool mom, and self-professed "media missionary." Welcome to Truly Rich and Blessed, a unique lifestyle blog about appreciating the "riches" that we have — our faith, self, relationships, resources, discoveries and experiences. I hope you'll enjoy your time here, and come away encouraged and inspired somehow!

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